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Send Lawyers, Guns and Money. Bob Friedland's Faded Love.



Bob Friedland’s Faded Love should come with a six pack, lace panties, a pack of smokes and the phone number of a really good lawyer. The characters in Love burn and pine long after their encounters with lovers and enemies have faded; their hungry hearts and hearty stomachs digesting booze, smoke, lust, and hate, as they, like sharks, circle the waters between Asia and North America.

Freidland’s prose is elegiac, crafted and composed, the arc of the stories zigzag around the world, offering opportunities for characters to emerge and disappear and reappear like a rabbit out of a magician’s hat. Plus plenty of opportunities for sex.

Faded Love opens in France but spends most of its time beating around the back wastes and hotels of Canada. The heaviest arc of stories concern the relationships between On Ning and Alex, a lawyer, who is devoted to her, so much he abandons his wife and family for the challenges and exotic sweetness a relationship with On Ning offers. The On Ning stories are the heart of the collection, and I wonder what Love would look like stripped down to their only their bodies? What would Love look like then?

The other stories in the collection are about loss and love, and about women’s scents and men wearing their masculinity like a hammer, and like an oil field, always in motion, motion, motion.

“Oil Patch Sketches” a series of stories revolving around Pig Eye, the brute oil driver who struggles to manage the harsh wilderness of Alaska and the rough work hands that live there remind me of Eastern Shore watermen, how many drive their bodies hard in every facet of their lives, becoming flinty, tough creatures.

Throughout Love Friedland slices racial conflicts open like squash ready to be gutted and grilled. The interactions of the Jewish protagonist with his Chinese mistress allow Friedland to illustrate how enlarging and challenging a bicultural/biracial relationship can be, how it affects one’s rhythms and consciousness, but in other stories anti-Semitism and racism snake through characters lips, and Friedland’s prose lends authenticity to the bald hate festering in the corners of the world.



As Friedland crisscrosses the globe, we see pointed, destructive desire smoldering in the hearts of men and women. Eros, lust, the straying beat of a lover’s heart. Faded Love haunts, it is elegiac, and at the same time frustrating. Many of the female characters, with the exception of On Ning, are whittled down to desire. And there is nothing wrong with that, mind you, the title of the freaking collection is Faded Love, but I couldn’t help but wonder about Jane, or Alex’s wife who allows her husband to stray as if he were a library book to be checked out. What are they feeling? What is their story? Aren’t they faded too? We don’t get to hear their story because they aren’t brimming with desire, at least not that we know, and not just for hanky-panky, mind you, but to feel alive and enlarged, in this case by love, and maybe that’s Friedland’s point, that to live is to desire, to sniff deeply of the earthy stuff, and tramp about for adventure and broken hearts.

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